I can’t really tell if a person is really in love or not but I can definitely know when a person is running away from love. I got a friend who does not want to commit himself or something like have a relationship because he sees that it can be a big headache for him. Seeing that relationships will cost him his time, money and emotions.
Well I have been trying to find the real meaning of love and what it is to have the kind of relationship that you want. And I guess it failed me. I was always push as the losing one. Tears and heartaches cause me bad memories. Maybe he is right. Sometimes you just have to give up loving and let it flow.
But heck no, never stop dating and trying to find the man or the girl who would truly care for you. This is a wild wide world. Anybody can bump in to anybody and fall in love. The possibility just never stops. Am I a fighter or just a believer but it would be nice to have a date and someone to lean on.
Dating is critical don’t you know that? Women see dating as the first step to a relationship. Guys should be more careful in creating first impressions in their first dates. Women are always at their best when they date. They do their hair, put on the best samples of their make up styles and spends longer hours in the mirror trying to fit in their outfit with their moods. But even though we put on extra hours for our looks, first dates often fail. Why? What do you look for in a date?
The perfect guy every one dreams about is someone who has the 4B’s: beauty, body, bank and brain. Ooopss… it would be so nice having that kind of guy around hugging you in the public and private places. But look what happen to the most admired couple in the Philippines like Ruffa Guttierez and Ylmaz Bektas. I really thought it was a match made in heaven. I should know that a princess can have a broken home and a broken heart too. They were so perfect and so in love. And just the other day I got the surprised of my life. They decided to give it an end. What should be the definition of my perfect guy now? Surely I don’t want to find my man in another woman’s arms.